So far, almost half the population of this country has probably (and guiltily) seen the controversial sex videotape of Dr. Hayden Kho, Jr. and sexy starlet Katrina Halili. Heck, I wouldn't be surprised if the entire Senate committee currently hearing this scandal already saw the video, in aid of legislation. The erstwhile lovers have become household names that even an ex-cop wanted to get his own five seconds of fame on local news by pouring a whole bottle of mineral water over the already remorseful Dr. Hayden.
Sympathies all for Katrina. But what of Hayden? The poor soul is now declared persona non grata in several places and is facing possible revocation of his medical practice license. He revealed he is now undergoing psychotherapy and seeking spiritual guidance for all his videotaping transgressions.
What's wrong with Hayden? What was in that pretty head (well, he is good-looking admittedly) of his that made him do it? Well, this certain psychologist (I forgot his name though) who was interviewed by a local radio station said that Hayden is probably suffering from some form of exhibitionism.
Exhibitionism: A behavior caused by the need to exhibit naked parts of the body to other people. It also refers to a strong desire to be observed by other people during sexual activity.
I'm not really sure if he had that "strong desire to be observed" as mentioned in that definition, but I think I found this explanation I got from this site (www.crimeandclues.com/
caughtontape.htm) as the most appropriate answer to that burning question:
"Most of (these) sex-related videos come from the perpetrators' desire to relive the experience at a later time through their photographic records. Much as some members of the general population use pornography to stimulate sexual fantasy, sexual deviates use their homemade pornography to satisfy their specialized deviance. This most often occurs in cases of more extreme forms of paraphilia. Because they find little excitement in general pornography, they develop their own to reflect their particular pathology.
...Finally, like (the) sexual deviated, they can relive the excitement of the experience by reviewing the videotape."
So, what's wrong with Hayden? A lot, really (He did mention in an interview that he was sort of abused as a child). But so are hordes of mortals who, just like him, suffer from these so-called psychosexual disorders. They can't help it.
Conclusion? I've been staring at my monitor for about an hour or so wracking my brains for a dramatic end to this entry. But I'll just leave it to you, Pinkoy readers.
(Easy way out eh? Can't help it) ^-^